{"id":2245,"date":"2026-08-10T10:18:59","date_gmt":"2026-08-10T10:18:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sn-coaching.com\/?p=2245"},"modified":"2026-08-11T13:21:08","modified_gmt":"2026-08-11T13:21:08","slug":"es-ist-respektlos-jemandem-seine-probleme-wegzunehmen","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sn-coaching.com\/en\/es-ist-respektlos-jemandem-seine-probleme-wegzunehmen\/","title":{"rendered":"It's disrespectful to take someone's problems away."},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yeah, sure\u2014who wants problems? You can have them all\u2014no problem! That\u2019s what I used to think a few years ago, too. But I\u2019ve learned to deal with them differently\u2014and that\u2019s really changed my life. Your problems are part of your life\u2019s journey.<br><\/strong><br><strong>Problems are challenges that need to be solved<br><\/strong>Some problems are easy to solve\u2014if you can even call them problems at all. Actually, they\u2019re nothing more than challenges waiting for a solution. At some point, I started ignoring the most persistent ones and putting them off. My thinking was: They\u2019ll just go away on their own. Well\u2014unfortunately, no. Problems demand a solution.<br><br><strong>Why \u201cTaking Away\u201d Isn\u2019t the Same as \u201cHelping\u201d<br><\/strong>Dealing with problems is actually quite simple: Find a solution. If you can\u2019t find one on your own, ask someone. But under no circumstances should you let anyone take your problems away from you. It\u2019s disrespectful to take someone\u2019s problems away! That doesn\u2019t actually solve them\u2014it just puts them off for a while. And what gets put off will come back.<br><br>What does that mean when someone else has a problem? Don't take it away\u2014instead, walk alongside them. Ask questions, offer suggestions, be there for them\u2014but leave the solution to the person who has the problem.<br><br><strong>Not every problem needs to be solved<br><\/strong>Some problems simply can't be solved\u2014for me, certain relationships and friendships fall into this category. The only thing to do is learn to deal with it, or do things differently next time. That, too, is a solution.<br><br><strong>What happens if you just ignore problems<br><\/strong>If problems are constantly pushed aside, they\u2019ll find another way out\u2014usually inward, as a nasty illness or injury. I see myself as an interpreter between the body and the person: Mental health issues manifest in the body\u2014an ancient truth that has, unfortunately, been lost. Your body is constantly sending you signals\u2014it\u2019s worth taking a closer look.<br><br><strong>What this means for you<br><\/strong>The next time someone comes to you with a problem, ask yourself: Do I really want to help, or do I just want to quickly make the problem go away? And if you\u2019re struggling with something yourself: Seek support when you need it\u2014but keep the solution in your own hands. That\u2019s exactly where real growth begins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This post is inspired by a chapter from my book \u201cJust Me! \u2026Not Normal!\u201d\u2014the first volume of the ON TARGET book series.<br><br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.buchschmiede.at\/app\/book\/305467-Silvia-Nussbaumer-Just-me!-....nicht-normal!;bookType=PB\">Order now!<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yeah, sure\u2014who wants problems? You can have them all\u2014no problem! That\u2019s what I used to think a few years ago, too. 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